New kind of love revolution

Arnold Mindell "ProcessMind: A User's Guide to Connecting with the Mind of God"

RELATIONSHIP WORK AND THE LOVE REVOLUTION

The processmind is the intelligence and power of love. I don't mean love in the sense of “being nice.” I mean that love is the master facilitator process behind all relationship problems, whether personal, business, group, or international in nature. Love being, in this sense, an ineffable, essence-level phenomenon, it is beyond good and bad, nice and not so nice. It embraces the energies we like and deals well with what at first appeared to be troublesome energies.

The conscious use of the processmind in relationship is a new kind of love revolution. Whereas we like certain aspects of our friends and dislike others, the relationship processmind embraces the entire relationship and uses all its parts as phases of its overall process. In this revolution, whatever you dream or feel is both “yours” and also part of the living field of that relationship. One of the great secrets to relationships is being half in your processmind and half out. Say hello to the other person and, at the same time, open up to another level where the parts and spaceless ghosts belong as much to both of you as they do to the cosmos.